Precautions To Take When On A Date With You Met Online
Dating can be tricky. No we
aren't talking about love's tricky and elusive ways. Meeting people who are
essentially strangers, going places with them, sometimes going over to their
place, all of this is tricky business. Caution and care need to be exercised
where dating is concerned. Of course, many of us think that nothing bad can
ever happen to us, that we could never be subject to creepy, scary episodes.
Everyone common safety steps
one should take when going on dates and even meeting people they corresponded
with first online.
Here are a few things to be
kept in mind when meeting people you came across online.
1. When you are going on a
date, inform at least two-four people. Friends, siblings, family, anyone, give
them complete details of where you are going, who you are meeting and don't
hold back from sharing the number of the person you are meeting.
2. I know it's laughed off
as stalking, but cross check all facts on search engines and social media sites
to know for sure you are meeting the correct person. It is essential to check
the person's authenticity.
3. Meet up with them in a
place which you are comfortable with and know like the back of your hand.
Needless to say, meet in a public space where there are going to be other
people around.
4. Daytime meetings are
underrated - brunch dates, early evening walks, breakfast dates are all a good
bet if you are concerned about your safety, especially for the first few
meetings.
5. Trust your gut - our
instincts are far more powerful then we give them credit for, so if you get a
hunch that the person you are meeting isn't all that, or you get some bad vibes
from them, call the whole thing off.
6. Don't meet someone right
off the bat. Talk to them for a while, chat, text, call, get to know them and
then meet them after.
Stay safe in your quest for
love, people.
Post a Comment